Today I had the pleasure of seeing a truly lovely claymation film: Mary and Max.
Based on a true story, Mary and Max chronicles the friendship of two unlikely pen pals; an eight year old Australian girl, and an old Jewish atheist with Asperger Syndrome.
The film was accompanied by a Q&A panel put together by the Asperger Syndrome and High Functioning Autism Association.
Although showing this movie is a wonderful way to expand awareness, it is in no way didactic or clinical. The main character has Asperger Syndrome, but the condition integrates with pathos and humor while remaining delicately informative. The story achieves a balance of innocence and purity without naivety.
Mary and Max is, above all, a movie about being human, “warts and all.” The quirks, insecurities and foibles of the characters are common. It’s the story of a personal connection with all of its ups and downs as life goes on.
The cast of peripheral characters is small, but each has depth and dimension. From Mary’s father, a tea bag factory worker obsessed with taxidermy, to her “wobbly” mother who tells Mary countless lies about her shoplifting and alcohol habit, to the veteran amputee and pompadour-sporting neighbors…everyone has a story implied in a glance.
Mary and Max was done entirely by hand, beautifully designed, constructed and animated without any CGI. There is heart and soul in every scene, engaging the viewer from the first frames. I highly recommend this movie if you ever get a chance to see it. I rarely purchase DVDs (thanks to Netflix), but I will definitely buy a copy of this when it’s available.
SheWalksSoftly 
3 responses to “Mary and Max”
Just a lovely, lovely picture. Haven’t stopped thinking about it for five minutes since I saw it.
tears rolled out from my eyes towards the end, in the year 2008 I got an email friend.. her name was Natalia, a sweet wonderful beautiful little girl, we used to talk a lot through mails, how she felt alone, how she never had any real friends, about her back pain, about meeting some one and falling in love, we talked for 4 years and then it stopped slowly.. when i saw this movie, i couldnt stop thinking about her
Kamal, I teared up toward the end as well. Such a beautiful film.